Tuesday, November 23, 2021

November 23, 2021 | snippets of convo with Bex

 (just stuff I didn't want to put in Sassy RP Archive)

SIGYN, 4:44 p.m.

I'm mad at Loki because Lucius is having a fit and Loki said that's why he needs a nap at 3 every day. But 3 is when Loki came to pick us up and Loki said he didn't think Lucius would take a nap anyway

 

BEX

men are so weird. You can't disrupt a baby/toddlers schedule and he should know that.


SIGYN

Honestly it's pretty fucked up. He came and got us early, claims he didn't feel like having it over his head that he was going to be driving later, then got upset with me for not giving him a nap at 3 when that was the time he arrived to come get us. I told him that's the time he arrived to come get us and he said "well I didn't think he'd go down for a nap anyway". Lucius was having fun playing with his blocks and everything. On the way home Loki said he (Loki) wanted to take a nap but he wasn't going to, and I told him he should just plug in my TV and go rest. Loki declined. Then when we got home acted like he was dismissing me and saying "you're free to go" when I had no intention of going

Now Lucius is strapped into his napnap chair anyway because Loki got "tired of him" crying, when the reason he is crying is because Loki is acting like Lucius is getting in the way of him playing video games and listening to videos on his phone. He's not cuddling the baby, so the baby is upset, so his solution is to strap the baby into his chair.

Oh he's acting like IM the reason Lucius didn't get a nap though

I try to comfort poor confused little Lucius and Loki goes "stop buying into it and just go"


BEX

Ummm! No! Loki messed up Lucius's schedule. That is his fault Lucius is upset and you do not just ignore a baby when they are crying with a certain tone. He needs to unplug and pay more attention to his son. Just my two cents.

 

SIGYN

💯💯💯💯

Agreed

Loki's being a little bitch. He's claiming he's unhappy but not doing anything about it. He's claiming he wants a nap but not go taking one

He's shooing me out of the room when I want to spend time with my son

 

BEX

I mean, I know I am on here a LOT, but I try to pay attention to Rhett when he tries to get my attention. I'm NOT perfect by any means, and when Steve calls me on being on to long, that is when I go silent...just fyi. ♥ ♥ ♥

 

SIGYN

Oh no I mean, I'm always happy to VC with Rhett so he gets some attention too from Lucius and me, but yeah If you have to go "afk baby" I totally understand

 

BEX

Your son, you decide. Is exactly what I told steve when we got into a dispute at one point. I carried him for 8 months, I gave birth to him, I decide.

 

SIGYN

Half the time when I try to VC you it's so Lucius can chat

ooh okay. My dad says I need to put my foot down more too

 

5:00 p.m.

 

BEX

I think you do too but I understand not really 'wanting' too cause you live with him and don't want to cause 'drama'. even more so when he is the way he is.

 

SIGYN

Maybe I sleep in their room tonight and wake up with the baby

At this stage I think I'm a better parent. I know my Lucius. He wants love and attention and he's entitled to it. Loki treating him like he "has" to take care of him rather than is a joy to take care of him is fucked up

 

BEX

I totally 100% agree with you.


SIGYN

(5:19 p.m.) My dad was checking in to see if Lucius is okay

He offered to come pick us up but I don't think Lucius could get to sleep in his crib there

(6:57 p.m.) (after Loki said some inappropriate things that are detailed in the RP log)

Eh, he's trying to guilt me or panic me into fucking him so he doesn't leave

 

BEX

I am SOOOOOO disappointed in him right now.

No...disappointed isn't even the word

I can't....I just...UGH! He makes me want to throw something....

are YOU ok? *hugs*

 

SIGYN

Agreed, but I'm not displaying emotion right now because I don't want him using it against me to try to claim I'm an unfit mother

 

BEX

I mean, how are you handling this?

 

SIGYN

I'm upset but I can't react where he can see it.

 

BEX

why would he do that when it's clear, from what we talked about eariler that he doesn't have any interest in his son?

 

SIGYN

To punish me.

 

BEX

every time we talk...he is playing a game or on the computer....I can say so if it comes down to it.

 

SIGYN

He says he does that because he's dealing with the baby all day

 

BEX

NO he isn't!!

 

SIGYN

"dealing with the baby"

not raising our son.

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